Intimate Blink 182 Show and Family Feast

I was with Pat Devine and we were watching a blink 182 live performance on tv and commenting how we grew up with them and it's crazy that we've "known" them for over 20 years. Then somehow we were there watching live. But it was one of those small intimate shows where only friends and family were there and it was at a stage but they were just sitting and playing on the side of the stage. There were a few people in the stands with us but not many. They looked old, but only slightly older than us. Was tough to imagine the life they lived vs the life we lived. Then some other performers came on for other acts like comedy and signing and we kinda lost interest so we moved down to the end of the seats at the far end. There was a table setup over there and we notice Dat and his family were there so we went over and said hi. Graham came back from the bathroom and was there too. We sat down for a bit and Dat's mom told us to eat, so we grabbed one of these massive soft shell crabs that was like a baked crab I guess and bit into one of those. It was delicious but so big and messy, and so filling so by the time I got like half thru it I was stuffed but wanted to be polite to his mom and finish it so I tried but it was tough. Woke up. So full.